By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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Ray Rice and Domestic Violence
Sep 9, 2014 1:03 pm
Comments: 17 | Views: 3,456
There has been a great outrage and shock for people to see the video of Ray Rice slugging his then fiancé, now wife. We heard about it, but actually seeing it has... More
Sep 4, 2014 10:20 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 1,833
"We limit ourselves every day without even knowing it, simply by doing what we always do, falling into patterns, not pushing ourselves further. But every one of... More
Parents Texting with Kids in the Car
Aug 29, 2014 7:58 am
Comments: 8 | Views: 2,432
I see parents texting with kids in the car more and more often now, and it scares me.
I am going to be blunt here: Do you want to risk killing your kids, or make... More
See Me. Hear Me. Don’t Fix Me.
Aug 22, 2014 1:42 pm
Comments: 2 | Views: 3,895
It seems so simple. But to see, listen and not fix is harder than to reassure or apologize.
We need to know our spouse gets us. We are competent, intelligent... More