By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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Sep 18, 2014 10:25 am
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My husband is having shoulder surgery as I write. Came home to eat and back to the hospital.
I'll post again soon.... More
What’s Your Love Language?
Sep 16, 2014 12:24 pm
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If you've been reading Couple's Net, you've seen my references to Gary Chapman's concept (and books) of the 5 Love Languages.
I would recommend that you start... More
Repeating and “You” Sentences
Sep 12, 2014 1:03 pm
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Repeating is a sign that we don't feel heard, or we feel misunderstood; that our mate is brushing aside our words and the meanings behind them. So we repeat (turn... More
Ray Rice and Domestic Violence
Sep 9, 2014 1:03 pm
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There has been a great outrage and shock for people to see the video of Ray Rice slugging his then fiancé, now wife. We heard about it, but actually seeing it has... More
Sep 4, 2014 10:20 am
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"We limit ourselves every day without even knowing it, simply by doing what we always do, falling into patterns, not pushing ourselves further. But every one of... More