By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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Jan 22, 2014 3:11 pm
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If you are divorced, never say anything bad about your children's other parent. In fact, don't even refer to him or her as "Your father" or "Your mother." You are... More
"How Can We Be Happy Again?"
Feb 5, 2014 3:10 pm
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How can we be happy again? I try to argue with him to get him to respond, and he goes further and further away, including long hours at work,... More
Feb 24, 2014 5:14 pm
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"This relationship is a mess, and I want you to change."
Now look in the mirror and repeat the above statement.
No matter how much we wish we had... More
Fidelity, Infidelity, Loyalty, Luck
Jan 27, 2014 4:58 pm
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I just read "Vow," by Wendy Plump, in which she writes about her own and her x-husband's infidelity; the benefits and the costs she found.
To have a marriage... More
Beware Difficult Topic: Death of a Child
Mar 4, 2014 8:05 am
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For some reason, a lot of the books I've recently been picking to read on my Kindle end up being about or including the death of a child. Go ahead, and click away... More