By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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Fidelity, Infidelity, Loyalty, Luck
Jan 27, 2014 4:58 pm
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I just read "Vow," by Wendy Plump, in which she writes about her own and her x-husband's infidelity; the benefits and the costs she found.
To have a marriage... More
Mar 7, 2014 12:22 pm
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We're getting an extra hour of daylight, starting on Sunday. I do not want you to work for another hour a day. I want you to spend time with your beloved (without... More
"The Purpose of Sex"
May 9, 2014 1:17 pm
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Ashley Judd, in her memoir, wrote that Archbishop Desmond Tutu told her that the purpose of sex between married couples is "as an instrument of love and expression,... More
Dec 17, 2013 8:47 am
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Okay, I'm getting tired of the awkwardness of writing him/her and s/he, etc. I am going to randomly write pronouns (and mix it up from post to post).
"How Can We Be Happy Again?"
Feb 5, 2014 3:10 pm
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How can we be happy again? I try to argue with him to get him to respond, and he goes further and further away, including long hours at work,... More