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By Chandrama Anderson

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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i...  (More)

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Time Change
Mar 7, 2014 12:22 pm
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We're getting an extra hour of daylight, starting on Sunday. I do not want you to work for another hour a day. I want you to spend time with your beloved (without... More
Plural Relationships
Jun 23, 2014 1:58 pm
Comments: 17 | Views: 4,177

June, thanks for sending in your question.

I should say for the sake of disclosure, that I support gay marriage, and worked quite hard within my professional... More
Why does She Keep Interrupting Me?
May 6, 2014 1:58 pm
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Interruption, or Bid for Connection?

Are you busy, working away, or engrossed in some project and your wife tends to come in and "interrupt" you with a detail... More
"How Can We Be Happy Again?"
Feb 5, 2014 3:10 pm
Comments: 2 | Views: 3,919

Dear Chandrama,

How can we be happy again? I try to argue with him to get him to respond, and he goes further and further away, including long hours at work,... More
All This Arguing . . .
Apr 11, 2014 11:41 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 3,847

. . . fighting, disagreeing is actually a primal cry for connection.

We are biologically wired to NEED a secure connection with another adult (defined as: be... More
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Touring the Southern California “Ivies:” Pomona and Cal Tech
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Chai Brisket
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Couples: Parallel Play or Interactive Play?
By Chandrama Anderson | 0 comments | 976 views

Just say no
By Jessica T | 4 comments | 862 views