By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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"How Can We Be Happy Again?"
Feb 5, 2014 3:10 pm
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How can we be happy again? I try to argue with him to get him to respond, and he goes further and further away, including long hours at work,... More
Kids and Marital Satisfaction
Aug 12, 2014 4:43 pm
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"More than a hundred studies show that marital satisfaction falls off a cliff after the birth of the first child and doesn't get much better until the last child... More
Why does She Keep Interrupting Me?
May 6, 2014 1:58 pm
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Interruption, or Bid for Connection?
Are you busy, working away, or engrossed in some project and your wife tends to come in and "interrupt" you with a detail... More
Dear Chandrama, Everywhere I turn . . .
Apr 21, 2014 8:32 am
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. . . these days there is talk of meditation. My partner is pushing me to take a class. What's the deal?
While people have been meditating... More
Marriage last 40 or 50 years?
May 16, 2014 3:53 pm
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What do we need to make our marriage last 40 or 50 years?
Dear Planning Ahead,
Good for you for thinking about this now. Most people spend... More