By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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Feb 24, 2014 5:14 pm
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"This relationship is a mess, and I want you to change."
Now look in the mirror and repeat the above statement.
No matter how much we wish we had... More
All This Arguing . . .
Apr 11, 2014 11:41 am
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. . . fighting, disagreeing is actually a primal cry for connection.
We are biologically wired to NEED a secure connection with another adult (defined as: be... More
The Year in Review
Dec 30, 2013 1:52 pm
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What one or two things will I do better than I did in 2103 that will make my marriage stronger and healthier and happier?
Let's make a list of ideas here. I'll... More
Arguing in Public
Dec 23, 2014 1:12 pm
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I went for a walk out at Princeton Point near Half Moon Bay the other day. The rain had stopped after pouring the night before, and it was damp and fresh. I watched... More