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Couple's Net

By Chandrama Anderson

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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i...  (More)

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Dear Chandrama, My wife thinks I am keeping secrets . . .
Apr 29, 2014 8:27 am
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. . . from her. I am just trying to protect her. I had a challenging upbringing; hers was protected. That innocence attracted me to her, plus she is smart and attractive... More
"Unpack Your Heart"
Oct 3, 2014 1:21 pm
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Take a listen to Philip Philips song Unpack Your Heart.

Most of us, at heart, want to be truly known, accepted,... More
Couples: Parallel Play or Interactive Play?
Aug 18, 2014 8:58 am
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Young children play alone, enjoying a box as much as the gift that came in that box. Other children may be present, but each child is focused on his or her own activity.... More
"The Big Snit"
May 30, 2014 8:28 am
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If you haven't seen Richard Condie's The Big Snit for a while (or not at all), Couple's Net says, "Check it out." ... More
See Me. Hear Me. Don’t Fix Me.
Aug 22, 2014 1:42 pm
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It seems so simple. But to see, listen and not fix is harder than to reassure or apologize.

We need to know our spouse gets us. We are competent, intelligent... More
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