By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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Teen Women & Father's Grief Workshops
Jun 18, 2014 9:07 am
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Want a weekend to feel normal with your grief? A place to not have to pretend about what you're going through? Be surrounded by others that have joined the club... More
Our Own Quirks
Jan 17, 2014 9:33 am
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My teenager said recently that he wants a girlfriend who is smart, funny, and okay with her own quirks.
How many of us are okay with our quirks? At what age... More
No Words Required
Jun 30, 2014 7:48 am
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I was in Berkeley recently, and as I got in the car with the window rolled most of the way up, I noticed a couple passing on the sidewalk. I could not hear their... More
Dec 17, 2013 8:47 am
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Okay, I'm getting tired of the awkwardness of writing him/her and s/he, etc. I am going to randomly write pronouns (and mix it up from post to post).
See Me. Hear Me. Don’t Fix Me.
Aug 22, 2014 1:42 pm
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It seems so simple. But to see, listen and not fix is harder than to reassure or apologize.
We need to know our spouse gets us. We are competent, intelligent... More