By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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Couples Doubles Tennis
Jan 13, 2015 7:42 am
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As a couple, please imagine that you are partners playing doubles tennis in life. This means that the two of you are on the same side. Whatever difficulty you are... More
I Hate Cancer
Jun 13, 2014 4:17 pm
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I really do. My lovely MIL is at the tail end of treatment; I'm her advocate with the docs and nurses and insurance company. My husband is a survivor, too, and the... More
See Me. Hear Me. Don’t Fix Me.
Aug 22, 2014 1:42 pm
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It seems so simple. But to see, listen and not fix is harder than to reassure or apologize.
We need to know our spouse gets us. We are competent, intelligent... More
Go Giants! Next Stop: World Series!
Oct 16, 2014 11:55 am
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We're on the cusp of winning the League Championship tonight, and I am excited about that.
I've been a football fan since I was a girl. However, being hit by... More
Keep a Sense of Humor
Feb 11, 2015 7:46 am
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I am working on a series of marriage interviews to share with you. They are anonymous so that these generous people will share a bit of their personal lives with... More