By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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What Topics Do You Want to Read About?
Jun 18, 2014 7:48 am
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I sit in my office thinking up couples topics. My company is my orange cat who rests on my desk next to my laptop.
When I was a manager, then director,... More
Not Witty or Fun
Jul 21, 2014 7:59 pm
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As a follow on to the last post, about serial relationships and the "conversation with their ex, in front of their new spouse while their kids look on soaking it... More
Repeating and “You” Sentences
Sep 12, 2014 1:03 pm
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Repeating is a sign that we don't feel heard, or we feel misunderstood; that our mate is brushing aside our words and the meanings behind them. So we repeat (turn... More
Parents Texting with Kids in the Car
Aug 29, 2014 7:58 am
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I see parents texting with kids in the car more and more often now, and it scares me.
I am going to be blunt here: Do you want to risk killing your kids, or make... More
What’s Your Love Language?
Sep 16, 2014 12:24 pm
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If you've been reading Couple's Net, you've seen my references to Gary Chapman's concept (and books) of the 5 Love Languages.
I would recommend that you start... More