By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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Jul 11, 2014 9:04 am
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I have been trying to rescue a kitten from my yard this week. It reminds me of couples wanting love and connection from one another, and yet not able... More
Fine, Good, Okay
Nov 11, 2014 8:27 am
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Do you answer fine, good, or okay when asked how you are?
How are you? "Fine."
How are you? "Good."
How are you? "Okay."
Do you have any idea how your mate... More
Oct 20, 2014 2:16 pm
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I know no one wants to be a marriage underachiever. Would we have low standards for ourselves about our marriage? Whose standards are we using? Have we discussed... More
Oct 24, 2014 10:11 am
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To avoid mistakes and regrets, always consult your wife before engaging in a flirtation.- E.W. Howe
As Mira Kirshenbaum writes in her book, "When Good People... More