By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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I Hate Cancer
Jun 13, 2014 4:17 pm
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I really do. My lovely MIL is at the tail end of treatment; I'm her advocate with the docs and nurses and insurance company. My husband is a survivor, too, and the... More
Cancer Mask to Butterfly
Feb 16, 2015 8:22 am
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My sister-in-law, Marjie Anderson of Anderson Creative transformed mom's cancer treatment mask into an amazing butterfly.
I don't know... More
See Me. Hear Me. Don’t Fix Me.
Aug 22, 2014 1:42 pm
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It seems so simple. But to see, listen and not fix is harder than to reassure or apologize.
We need to know our spouse gets us. We are competent, intelligent... More
Keep a Sense of Humor
Feb 11, 2015 7:46 am
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I am working on a series of marriage interviews to share with you. They are anonymous so that these generous people will share a bit of their personal lives with... More
"The Big Snit"
May 30, 2014 8:28 am
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If you haven't seen Richard Condie's The Big Snit
for a while (or not at all), Couple's Net says, "Check it out." ... More