By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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See Me. Hear Me. Don’t Fix Me.
Aug 22, 2014 1:42 pm
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It seems so simple. But to see, listen and not fix is harder than to reassure or apologize.
We need to know our spouse gets us. We are competent, intelligent... More
Couples Doubles Tennis
Jan 13, 2015 7:42 am
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As a couple, please imagine that you are partners playing doubles tennis in life. This means that the two of you are on the same side. Whatever difficulty you are... More
Cancer Mask to Butterfly
Feb 16, 2015 8:22 am
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My sister-in-law, Marjie Anderson of Anderson Creative transformed mom's cancer treatment mask into an amazing butterfly.
I don't know... More
"The Big Snit"
May 30, 2014 8:28 am
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If you haven't seen Richard Condie's The Big Snit
for a while (or not at all), Couple's Net says, "Check it out." ... More
Couple’s Tone and Body Language
Jul 7, 2014 7:29 am
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Last time I wrote about observing couples' communication through tone and body language. I want to clarify that we can not assume what is going on from what we see.... More