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MV bride succumbs to lung cancer

Jen Bulik-Lang celebrated 'dream wedding' in July with help of local businesses

Jen Bulik-Lang, the Mountain View woman whose terminal cancer diagnosis inspired local vendors to throw her a dream wedding, died Thursday, Oct. 10. She was 35.

Her husband Jeff Lang announced the news of her death on his Facebook page. "My lovely wife, best friend, and constant companion continues to live on in my heart, and your heart. She's talking to me constantly, but she left her body at 8 a.m. this morning," he wrote.

She was diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer in December of 2012 and told it was unlikely that she'd live to see 2014.

In July, she married Lang, a Mountain View yoga teacher, in an outdoor ceremony near her childhood home in San Jose.

"It was a magical day for not just me but for everybody," Bulik-Lang told the Voice shortly after her wedding, held July 27 at Saratoga Creek Park in San Jose.

The event was organized by wedding planner Erica Ota, who pulled together contributions from more than 40 local vendors. The story of her bittersweet wedding attracted widespread media attention. At the time, Bulik-Lang said that it wasn't her intention to share her tale, but since she had an audience she was hopeful that some good would come of it.

Before media outlets began contacting Bulik-Lang for interviews, she said that she was already active in social media -- talking to other cancer patients and survivors, sharing her story and listening to the stories of others.

Talking to others about what they have gone through and how they continue to struggle on helped her greatly, Bulik said. "I just feel honored to be able to be that person who can share that hope and that inspiration with others," she told the Voice.

Memorial donations may be sent to Jeff Lang at 650 Castro Street, Suite 120-280, Mountain View, CA 94041

— Mountain View Voice staff

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Posted by jerry
a resident of Bailey Park
on Oct 11, 2013 at 2:11 pm

Shes in a better place where suffering doesn't exist.


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Posted by maddix
a resident of another community
on Oct 11, 2013 at 2:31 pm

She was amazing...now flying with the angels. Praying for the family


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Posted by Litsa
a resident of North Whisman
on Oct 11, 2013 at 3:04 pm

May she rest in peace. Condolences to her husband and family.


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Posted by UC Davis Grad
a resident of Cuernavaca
on Oct 11, 2013 at 4:43 pm

Thanks to those who contributed towards her wedding, Jen Bulik-Lang has gone to the hereafter with memories that will never.

Safe travels.


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Posted by UC Davis Grad
a resident of Cuernavaca
on Oct 11, 2013 at 4:44 pm

...never *fade*.


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Posted by Resident
a resident of Whisman Station
on Oct 14, 2013 at 2:57 pm

Such a sad story. Wishing peace upon her husband, friends and family. May the end of her suffering provide some comfort.


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Posted by Did she smoke
a resident of Monta Loma
on Oct 29, 2013 at 4:30 pm

What, lung cancer can happen to non-smokers, what a concept. So maybe smoking is not the cause of lung cancer after all.

Yes, I know all the statistics, but could they be actually misleading the true reasons?


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