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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ...  (More)

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"A journey is like marriage. The certain way to be wrong . . .
Oct 22, 2021 9:37 am
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. . . is to think you control it."

-John Steinbeck

Steinbeck makes a great point; we control almost nothing, whether on a journey or in marriage. We have... More
"To keep your marriage brimming . . .
Oct 15, 2021 8:51 am
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. . . With love in the loving cup, Whenever you're wrong, admit it; Whenever you're right, shut up."
- Ogden Nash

Is it harder to admit it when you’re... More
"When you make the sacrifice in marriage . . .
Oct 8, 2021 10:50 am
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. . . you're sacrificing not to each other but to unity in a relationship."
- Joseph Campbell

Well said! Other ways of saying it: Secure Attachment. Two-person... More
Princess Diana: "There were three of us in this marriage, so it was a bit crowded."
Sep 24, 2021 10:29 am
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In Princess Diana’s case, the ‘third’ was another woman. The clinical term for ‘thirds’ is triangulation. Imagine a triangle in which... More
Couples and Premarital: Parallel Living: What to Do
Sep 17, 2021 10:30 am
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I received an email thanking me for writing Signs and Symptoms of Parallel... More
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