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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ... (More)
About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background in high-tech is helpful in understanding local couples' dynamics and the pressures of living here. I am a wife, mom, sister, friend, author, and lifelong advocate for causes I believe in (such as marriage equality). My parents are both deceased. My son graduated culinary school and is heading toward a degree in Sociology. I enjoy reading, hiking, water fitness, movies, 49ers and Stanford football, Giants baseball, and riding a tandem bike with my husband. I love the beach and mountains; nature is my place of restoration. In my work with couples, and in this blog, I combine knowledge from many fields to bring you my best ideas, tips, tools and skills, plus book and movie reviews, and musings to help you be your genuine self, find your own voice, and have a happy and healthy relationship. Don't be surprised to hear about brain research and business skills, self-soothing techniques from all walks of life, suggestions and experiments, and anything that lights my passion for couples. (Author and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Calif. Lic # MFC 45204.) (Hide)
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Couples: My New Best Friend; Giving and Receiving
Aug 23, 2018 10:55 am
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Here's my new best friend, Bixby. Hey readers, I've been busy the last couple of weeks. My husband had a concert in San Anselmo (he's a tenor in a... More
Aug 23, 2018 10:55 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 3,007
Here's my new best friend, Bixby. Hey readers, I've been busy the last couple of weeks. My husband had a concert in San Anselmo (he's a tenor in a... More
Couples: Wanting, Yet Missing One Another
Aug 16, 2018 8:32 am
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A while back while I was waiting at the traffic signal by my office I saw a woman at the crosswalk. She wanted to cross Middlefield, a busy street. She turned away... More
Aug 16, 2018 8:32 am
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A while back while I was waiting at the traffic signal by my office I saw a woman at the crosswalk. She wanted to cross Middlefield, a busy street. She turned away... More
Couples: Drop Your Keyboard!
Aug 10, 2018 2:42 pm
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Talking with your partner and being understood may be challenging enough without adding in the complexities of technology. Body language accounts for 70% or more... More
Aug 10, 2018 2:42 pm
Comments: 1 | Views: 10,586
Talking with your partner and being understood may be challenging enough without adding in the complexities of technology. Body language accounts for 70% or more... More
Couples: Tantric Sex and Menopause
Aug 3, 2018 7:54 am
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Tantric Sex and Menopause: Practices for Spiritual and Sexual Renewal
By Diana Richardson and Janet McGeever
I recently read Tantric Sex and Menopause... More
Aug 3, 2018 7:54 am
Comments: 1 | Views: 4,912
Tantric Sex and Menopause: Practices for Spiritual and Sexual Renewal
By Diana Richardson and Janet McGeever
I recently read Tantric Sex and Menopause... More
“Leaving You for Me”
Jul 27, 2018 7:36 am
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“Leaving You for Me” is a new book by Alex Nicollet Delon. It’s the story of leaving her narcissistic husband after more than 40 years of marriage,... More
Jul 27, 2018 7:36 am
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“Leaving You for Me” is a new book by Alex Nicollet Delon. It’s the story of leaving her narcissistic husband after more than 40 years of marriage,... More
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Babka bakery to open Thursday in Palo Alto
By Elena Kadvany | 8 comments | 5,720 views
Couples: Child Loss, "No U-Turn at Mercy Street"
By Chandrama Anderson | 2 comments | 1,781 views
Which Cocktail Has the Least Calories?
By Laura Stec | 12 comments | 1,661 views
UCSB's CCS program
By John Raftrey and Lori McCormick | 1 comment | 795 views
