By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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If You Don't Ask, S/he Can't Say "Yes"
Oct 11, 2013 8:30 am
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True story. An attractive, smart, single, working young woman -- can you say eligible, what the heck are you waiting for -- told me recently that she wishes guys... More
My Daughter Died 18 Years Ago
Sep 29, 2016 11:46 am
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My daughter had Trisomy 13, a fatal chromosome disorder. Down Syndrome is Trisomy 21. The lower the number, the more serious it is.
Her death, among a series... More
Engagement Rings: Myths and Options
Feb 16, 2017 9:53 am
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Perhaps it would have been better to post about engagement rings: myths and options before Valentine’s Day, as many people get engaged on that day each year.... More
Fidelity, Infidelity, Loyalty, Luck
Jan 27, 2014 4:58 pm
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I just read "Vow," by Wendy Plump, in which she writes about her own and her x-husband's infidelity; the benefits and the costs she found.
To have a marriage... More
"How Can We Be Happy Again?"
Feb 5, 2014 3:10 pm
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How can we be happy again? I try to argue with him to get him to respond, and he goes further and further away, including long hours at work,... More