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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ... (More)
About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background in high-tech is helpful in understanding local couples' dynamics and the pressures of living here. I am a wife, mom, sister, friend, author, and lifelong advocate for causes I believe in (such as marriage equality). My parents are both deceased. My son graduated culinary school and is heading toward a degree in Sociology. I enjoy reading, hiking, water fitness, movies, 49ers and Stanford football, Giants baseball, and riding a tandem bike with my husband. I love the beach and mountains; nature is my place of restoration. In my work with couples, and in this blog, I combine knowledge from many fields to bring you my best ideas, tips, tools and skills, plus book and movie reviews, and musings to help you be your genuine self, find your own voice, and have a happy and healthy relationship. Don't be surprised to hear about brain research and business skills, self-soothing techniques from all walks of life, suggestions and experiments, and anything that lights my passion for couples. (Author and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Calif. Lic # MFC 45204.) (Hide)
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People and Relationships Never Stop Being a Work in Progress
Dec 3, 2022 9:08 pm
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It’s really true that we are all works in progress. Fortunately, your brain can continue to create new neural pathways until you die. Often you’ll hear... More
Dec 3, 2022 9:08 pm
Comments: 3 | Views: 10,016
It’s really true that we are all works in progress. Fortunately, your brain can continue to create new neural pathways until you die. Often you’ll hear... More
What Do You Get Out of Being Stubborn?
Oct 1, 2022 1:10 pm
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Oxford Languages defines stubborn thus: “having or showing dogged determination not to change one's attitude or position on something, especially in spite... More
Oct 1, 2022 1:10 pm
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Oxford Languages defines stubborn thus: “having or showing dogged determination not to change one's attitude or position on something, especially in spite... More
We Try to Do This
Oct 22, 2022 2:01 pm
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At times in life, unexpected situations arise that cut you to your knees. For example:
- A job loss; along with our identity
- A divorce we didn’t... More
Oct 22, 2022 2:01 pm
Comments: 0 | Views: 9,969
At times in life, unexpected situations arise that cut you to your knees. For example:
- A job loss; along with our identity
- A divorce we didn’t... More
Taking a Break. “And I Forgive Myself.”
Sep 1, 2023 2:09 pm
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Dear Readers, I’ve completed the first book in the series of I Do, I Don’t: How to Build a Better Marriage! From inception in April of... More
Sep 1, 2023 2:09 pm
Comments: 1 | Views: 9,946
Dear Readers, I’ve completed the first book in the series of I Do, I Don’t: How to Build a Better Marriage! From inception in April of... More
Top 10 Safety Tips for Women (and Everyone)
Jul 14, 2023 3:16 pm
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Joy Farrow and Laura Frombach have written the book, ... More
Jul 14, 2023 3:16 pm
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Joy Farrow and Laura Frombach have written the book, ... More
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