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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ... (More)
About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background in high-tech is helpful in understanding local couples' dynamics and the pressures of living here. I am a wife, mom, sister, friend, author, and lifelong advocate for causes I believe in (such as marriage equality). My parents are both deceased. My son graduated culinary school and is heading toward a degree in Sociology. I enjoy reading, hiking, water fitness, movies, 49ers and Stanford football, Giants baseball, and riding a tandem bike with my husband. I love the beach and mountains; nature is my place of restoration. In my work with couples, and in this blog, I combine knowledge from many fields to bring you my best ideas, tips, tools and skills, plus book and movie reviews, and musings to help you be your genuine self, find your own voice, and have a happy and healthy relationship. Don't be surprised to hear about brain research and business skills, self-soothing techniques from all walks of life, suggestions and experiments, and anything that lights my passion for couples. (Author and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Calif. Lic # MFC 45204.) (Hide)
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“Love like a Man” Men: Read this book! (Women, too.)
Apr 7, 2023 4:55 pm
Comments: 17 | Views: 6,784
Love like a Man, A Frenchman’s Guide to Help American Men be Better Partners, by Guy Blaise is a must read.
As I was reading it, I thought to myself,... More
Apr 7, 2023 4:55 pm
Comments: 17 | Views: 6,784
Love like a Man, A Frenchman’s Guide to Help American Men be Better Partners, by Guy Blaise is a must read.
As I was reading it, I thought to myself,... More
I’m a Jew in Germany
Feb 11, 2023 4:41 pm
Comments: 6 | Views: 6,511
I’m just back from a walk to the Pilgrimage Church of the Assumption of the Virgin Mary on Bogenberg Hill. I quietly and respectfully entered the Church. I... More
Feb 11, 2023 4:41 pm
Comments: 6 | Views: 6,511
I’m just back from a walk to the Pilgrimage Church of the Assumption of the Virgin Mary on Bogenberg Hill. I quietly and respectfully entered the Church. I... More
Taking a Break. “And I Forgive Myself.”
Sep 1, 2023 2:09 pm
Comments: 1 | Views: 6,109
Dear Readers, I’ve completed the first book in the series of I Do, I Don’t: How to Build a Better Marriage! From inception in April of... More
Sep 1, 2023 2:09 pm
Comments: 1 | Views: 6,109
Dear Readers, I’ve completed the first book in the series of I Do, I Don’t: How to Build a Better Marriage! From inception in April of... More
It’s ‘International Being You’ Day
May 22, 2023 1:40 pm
Comments: 36 | Views: 5,802
It’s good to be you, because everyone else is already taken! The world needs YOU, as you are (and yes, of course all of us have things to learn... More
May 22, 2023 1:40 pm
Comments: 36 | Views: 5,802
It’s good to be you, because everyone else is already taken! The world needs YOU, as you are (and yes, of course all of us have things to learn... More
“ . . . We have no way of knowing when our time is up . . .”
Jan 28, 2023 6:08 pm
Comments: 4 | Views: 5,714
“It is only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth -- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up -- that we will... More
Jan 28, 2023 6:08 pm
Comments: 4 | Views: 5,714
“It is only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth -- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up -- that we will... More
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