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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i...  (More)

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Couples: Avocados and Milk

Uploaded: Oct 5, 2017
A client of mine sent this joke to me (thank you!), and I want to share it and briefly comment on it:

     A wife asks her husband, "Could you please go shopping for me and buy one carton of milk, and if they have avocados, get six."
     A short time later the husband comes back with six cartons of milk.
     The wife asks him, "Why did you buy six cartons of milk?"
     He replied, "They had avocados."

Even when you're talking about the same thing, you can be talking about different things. Be explicit in your communication. Especially be explicit in your sexual communication.

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Posted by Anna Sanders, a resident of Duveneck School,
on Oct 19, 2017 at 4:15 am

Anna Sanders is a registered user.

I had the same feeling while listening to my co-workers. I was looking for a buyer of my car and while scrolling at www.michianajunkcars.com, I heard them both giggling next to me coz they we're sharing explicit experiences with their husbands. It was kind of normal for them but to me, it's kind of awkward.


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